I was out last night at the home of some friends. Our church has just begun the 40 Days of Community programme and so it was the first night of our small group meetings.
A couple of other guys from church were making their way there too but got quite lost in the process. They had to ring and ask for directions which is supposedly something that men don’t do very often or very well.
The exception to that rule, it would seem, would be in India. Last night’s experience reminded me of the first time I visited the Taj Mahal in 2003. The guys who were driving us there stopped to ask some passers by for directions. A crowd gathered and everyone added their 2 cents worth, or should I say their two rupees worth. It was all in Hindi so I didn’t understand anything apart from Taj Mahal. It was fascinating to see how many people decided that they should wander over and give our Indian friends the benefit of their knowledge of the roads of Agra.
After getting directions we were all set. We drove off. With all that information I was sure we’d get there without further problems.
500 metres up the road we stopped again and repeated the process. More road experts surrounded the van and pointed in a variety of directions before we headed off again. After another three or four stops to ask directions, we arrived.
So there you have it. It’s not a ‘man thing’ after all. The reticence to ask for directions apparently has a lot more to do with culture than gender.
Posted by Rodney Olsen
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