Comments on: Why do men hate church?

By: Rodney Olsen

Rodney Olsen — Thu, 22 May 2008 22:17:11 +0000

Brian, I am just so thrilled for you. Thanks for taking the time to come back and let me know.

By: Brian

Brian — Thu, 22 May 2008 18:24:14 +0000

Thanks! By the way if you have been praying for a church to accept me as I am:
I have found one. I have been there only two weeks and I don’t think a friendlier bunch of people this side of Heaven could exist.

By: Rodney Olsen

Rodney Olsen — Wed, 14 May 2008 13:05:59 +0000

Thanks for dropping in, Brian.

Sounds like you’ve been around some pretty lame churches. I’m so sorry that you feel that people have labelled you in the way you describe.

I have several unmarried friends around your age and older and I certainly don’t think that about any of them. I hope you’re able to find a group of people to accept you for who you are.

By: Brian

Brian — Wed, 07 May 2008 03:43:48 +0000

I’m a 36 year old single STRAIGHT guy. I have not had sex, nor will I outside of marriage. If that means I go to heaven a virgin: so be it.

But most churches think one of the following things:
1 “he’s gay”
2 “he’s sleeping around”
3 “he hates women”
4 “it’s a sin for a man that old to be unmarried”
5 “that’s a gal tryng to pass as a guy”
6 “he’s not a real Christian”
7 “loser!!!!!111″
8 “he must have AIDS”
9 “he can’t get a gal pregnant, that’s why he’s still singe”
10 two or more of the above

By: Wayne Field

Wayne Field — Sat, 24 Feb 2007 04:51:31 +0000

Jan!! It takes a woman to state the obvious! Well done, I like it.