We need to talk …

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I’m just a few weeks away from a significant birthday so I thought I should write a quick letter to someone who’s travelled this journey of life with me for all those years.

Dear ageing body

I know I haven’t always treated you right and there are times I’ve taken you for granted but I think we both know it’s time we talked.

Firstly, about the hair. Let’s not play this game any more. I understand that you may prefer not to waste your energies on pushing strands of hair through my scalp and I’m OK with that. I don’t have a lot of money and so having more time between haircuts is not such a bad thing. You’re saving me more and more on haircuts, shampoo and other hair products as each year passes. But if you’ve decided not to bother growing hair on my head, let’s not bother with the weird, random, ear hair. I don’t need it there and I think the only result is that it makes both you and me look stupid. (Don’t get me started on nose hair.)

And about the lines on my face. You know the ones I’m talking about. I know that people talk about wrinkles adding character but seriously? How much character does a person need? To be clear, character is good, looking like the map of a busy inner city centre is not so good. Let’s not take this wrinkle thin any further.

By the way, can we do something about the eyes? Wearing glasses isn’t such a bad thing in some ways. They do tend to take some of the focus away from those wrinkles I was telling you about, but how about we let the eyes get about their business of seeing things …. clearly. What’s with the whole bleary morning eyes deal? Why is it taking longer each morning before my eyes can focus, even with glasses? Is no one telling them it’s time to get up? Do they need more sleep than other body parts? I remember when I would amaze other people by my ability to read signs way off in the distance. I could also read very fine print in low light. These days I need a couple of 1000 watt floodlights to read normal sized print.

I want you to know that I can see right through you … with the appropriate medical scanning technology. That picture of my back we had taken last year? Scary. What’s going on in there? Those vertebrae look downright weird. You do realise that they’re not meant to look that way don’t you? I’m pleased to say that with the help of a very good naturopath and my daily cycling, the consequences of that horrible mess are being kept at bay, but things in there are seriously screwed up.

Can you tell me where you’re planning to go with the whole “system shutting down” thing? Can I at least have some warning? One minute I’m relaxing by enjoying something on television, next thing I wake up three quarters the way through the next program. I’m sure I haven’t seen an entire program from start to finish for months. Is that now completely out of the question?

There’s more I wanted to say but I’ve forgotten a few of the points I was going to make. Funny how that seems to be happening more and more lately. I think I’ll just go have a nap.

Regards

Me



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John Lennon on The Voice

When I saw this video earlier today I couldn’t wait to share it with you. I’ve often wondered how some of the greats of the music world would be received if they tried to turn a chair or two.

I love the fact that shows like Idol, The Voice, and others give talented performers a platform to perform for a far wider audience and I’m glad that we’ve discovered some great artists through those shows, but it’s always concerned me that the unique and different can get lost.

Obviously any such program can only give us a small window into the lives of the people involved and their music and so it becomes a popularity contest, but what about some of the acts that have built up massive followings and have remained popular over many years? Would they have found a following on those programs?

I think of artists like Bob Dylan, Van Morrison and many others who have continued to draw audiences for decades. I’m not sure that many would get past the auditions which is why I’m thankful that there are several ways to enter the music industry. I just hope we keep providing a variety of avenues for those with something to say through music to reach their audience.



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Alice Brings it to the Table

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MasterChef Australia is now into its fifth season and while many of us are still at the stage of getting to know who’s who among the contestants, deciding who we’d like to see do well or even win, there are several contestants from previous years that still hold a place in Australia’s heart.

Alice Zaslavsky was a school teacher before she joined MasterChef last year. Alice was known for her big glasses and even bigger personality.

Alice is on a quick trip to Western Australia this weekend to go truffle hunting.

She joined me on the phone for a quick chat during my radio program today. We talked about her current television program, Kitchen Whiz, as well as other projects that have kept her busy since leaving MasterChef last year.

We also chatted about a great initiative called Bring it to the Table which is described as a fun, easy way for people to show support for those living with dementia. It helps raise awareness and much needed funds for services and research.

You can listen to our conversation by clicking the play button on the audio player below.



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I can’t forget those pictures

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If most primary school aged children drew pictures of men with automatic weapons shooting unarmed people, complete with blood flowing freely, you’d probably suggest they’ve been watching too many MA rated movies or playing violent video games.

I’ve seen pictures like that, drawn by young children, but they had nothing to do with inappropriate viewing or gaming. These children were drawing real life experiences, traumatic scenes they’d witnessed themselves, and the people being massacred were most often their brothers or fathers or mothers.

The pictures I saw were created by refugee children who had escaped hellish conditions in their own country to travel the open seas in boats that weren’t in suitable shape to float across a lake. Together with their families they were seeking a better life and along the way they encountered pirates who would exploit even the most vulnerable to take what little they had, without caring who they slaughtered along the way.

I saw those images when I worked within W.A.’s Education Department. I worked in a resource centre that supported the English as a Second Language programs that the department ran. At the time there was animosity towards refugees in our community. It was said that these so called ‘refugees’ were people with plenty of money wanting to get into our country illegally and that they were simply rorting the system. I knew different. I’d seen those pictures which are still burnt into my memory more than 25 years later. I can’t even begin to imagine how much the incidents they depicted still haunt those who saw them first hand when they were young, impressionable children.

Boat People

It amazes me that there is still so much false information surrounding refugees. They’re called ‘boat people’ or ‘illegals’ and that’s when people are being ‘polite’. We hear that they are flooding our country. We hear talk about stopping the boats, not because we want to stop lives being endangered on unseaworthy vessels but because we don’t want those people invading our country.

It’s time we all grew up

Where’s our compassion? Where’s our sense of a fair go?

Thankfully there are many people who are seeking to tell the true story. These refugees are not ‘boat people’ but fathers, mothers, sons, and daughters seeking refuge from oppression. It’s not illegal to seek asylum.

The issue of how asylum seekers reach our shores is a complex one but it won’t be solved until we all grow up and start looking at the issue with compassion and thoughtfulness.

Refugee Week

This week is Refugee Week and today is World Refugee Day.

Refugee Week is Australia’s peak annual activity to inform the public about refugees and celebrate positive contributions made by refugees to Australian society. The first Refugee Week events were organised in Sydney in 1986 by Austcare. In 1987, Refugee Council of Australia (RCOA) became a co-organiser of the week, which became a national event from 1988. RCOA took on responsibility for the national coordination of Refugee Week from 2004. Major-General Paul Cullen, the foundation president of both Austcare and RCOA, actively lobbied, from the 1980s, for a global annual celebration of the contribution of refugees. His dream was achieved in 2001, when the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees (UNHCR) coordinated the first World Refugee Day (June 20).

Refugee Week provides a platform where positive images of refugees can be promoted in order to create a culture of welcome throughout the country. The ultimate aim of the celebration is to create better understanding between different communities and to encourage successful integration enabling refugees to live in safety and to continue making a valuable contribution to Australia.

This year’s theme is Restoring Hope.

Refugee Council of Australia has chosen Restoring Hope as the Refugee Week theme for 2012 to 2014.

The theme reminds us that, while a refugee’s journey begins with danger, it also begins with hope. Refugees flee their homelands not only because they fear persecution, but also because they have hope: they hope to find freedom from persecution, and safety and security for themselves and their families; they hope to be given a chance to start a new life and recover from past trauma.

The theme also calls attention to the role of countries which, through offering protection to refugees and providing them an opportunity to rebuild their lives, restore hope for a future free from fear, persecution, violence and insecurity.

Finally, the theme aims to highlight the situation of refugees whose hopes have not been fulfilled – those who remain in seriously protracted situations, facing ongoing discrimination, violence and uncertainty, with little hope for a resolution in the near future. The theme calls on us to consider how we can provide solutions for these refugees and restore their hopes for a brighter future.

If you want to stand up and show that as a country we can do better in welcoming people to our country you can be part of Walk Together this Saturday. There are walks right across Australia.

Walk Together takes place on the Saturday of Refugee Week. In cities and regional centres all over Australia, you’re invited to join this celebration of diversity and present a picture to our leaders and media of the Australia that is possible. An Australia that recognises in its public debate, media conversation and legislation that “if we’re all people, we’re all equal”. Equally deserving of freedom, fairness, opportunity to contribute, welcome and belonging.



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The Sweet Smell of Real Estate Success

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OK … confession time. What smelly things have you done to try to sell your home?

New research is telling us that the wrong smell in a house can cost home sellers a sale. Dr Avery Gilbert, a psychologist who studies human responses to scents, says tobacco and cat urine are the odours most difficult to cover up and warns the bad impression they leave can have buyers walking out the door.

Dr. Avery Gilbert is a smell scientist.

He has conducted research on human odor perception in academic laboratories and in the R&D divisions of multinational perfume companies. Along the way he’s taught scores of audiences about the science of smell. – Avery Gilbert

But what about good scents? Have you ever tried baking bread or biscuits just before a home open? Apparently that might make buyers feel as though the house belongs to someone else (which of course, it does) and they’re less likely to see themselves living there.

Dr Avery reckons the best option is a clean, fresh floral scent. I guess that having a couple of bunches of fresh flowers in your house would make it visually appealing too.

“If you have a highly pleasant smell, people get into a better mood as they are exposed to it. And bad smells will put people in a bad mood,” Dr Gilbert said.

“People may not be as attracted, even if it is a fine property.”

Dr Avery, whose research involved a company that manufactures air freshener, partnered with Air Wick to complete the research into home odour created an index of the 51 most common household scents, from cooking to pets and body odour.

He said finding a way to remove bad odours should be paramount when selling your home. – News.com.au

What are the little tips and tricks you’ve used for home opens? Brewed coffee? Air freshener? Fresh bread? Let me know what you’ve tried.



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