The Dark Side of Doing Good

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Can a life of helping, of doing good for others, of serving the greater good all be worthless? Can such a life even be doing us harm? Is there a spiritual danger in doing good?

Peter Greer, who is the President and CEO of HOPE International, has written a book titled The Spiritual Danger of Doing Good. I bought the book some weeks ago and took advantage of a three and a half hour flight couple of days ago to get a good start on reading what Greer has to say. I finished reading the book in the first half hour of the return flight last night.

I’ve found the book to be a bit like some meals I’ve had. It’s very easy to ‘consume’ but I suspect it’ll take quite a while longer to digest. By that, I mean that while it’s not a long read, and it’s written in a very easy to read style, it deals with weighty matters that will take a while to fully process.

Greer talks about those who serve in some kind of ministry yet serve from wrong motives. Being flawed human beings I suspect that that would cover about 99.9 % of those in ministry at some time or another.

One of the tell tale signs is when we begin to make our work our master. In the book he speaks of those who throw everything into doing good of one kind or another yet neglect those who need them most.

According to statistics compiled by Bill Bright, founder of Campus Crusade for Christ, “Eighty percent of pastors’ spouses feel their spouse is overworked … and 50 percent of pastors’ marriages will end in divorce.”

It is a very real problem that skewed priorities mean many don’t finish life well. Even looking at those heroes of the Scriptures we see a pattern of failure when those serving God lose sight of their true calling.

Greer spends a lot of time reminding us that we don’t have all the answers and that we really aren’t able to do much worthwhile …. in our own strength …. but that’s OK.

So accept that you’re inadequate. Embrace the fact that you’re needy. Don’t try to prove to God you’ve earned His favour. Let Jesus Christ flood your life with forgiveness, acceptance and love.

Peter Greer heads up an agency working in the developing world, helping release people from poverty, so I can certainly relate to what he has to say, but I would suggest that there are many who would benefit from reading his book. I reckon it should be absolutely required reading for anyone in full time ministry of any kind and I would urge anyone else who truly desires to walk humbly with their Lord to grab a copy. There is so much you’ll get from this book.

Through real life, relatable stories, humour, personal experience, and solid teaching, Greer gently leads the reader to more clearly see themselves and their own need for change. Far from presenting himself as the example we should all follow, Peter Greer shares his own brokenness and helps us relate to stumbling blocks that face us all.

You won’t feel like he’s using a ‘big stick‘ to make you feel inadequate, rather he provides relief from our own self imposed stresses and guides us towards a more Godly way forward. He doesn’t offer easy or fast answers but his direction towards a ‘better way’ is refreshing.

The chapters are short and engaging and each one ends with questions that help us focus on how to put principles into action. There is also a link at the end of each chapter which points to some stunning online resources which will help you get even more value from the book.

From his urging that we find some ‘3:00 a.m. friends‘ (those you can call at any time of the day to keep you accountable and stop you from doing something stupid) to giving us the tools to honestly face our own failures, Greer’s desire is obvious. He earnestly wants us to ‘finish well’. As someone who truly desires that but often gets tripped up along the way, I am truly thankful for The Spiritual Danger of Doing Good and I’m sure that I’ll return to it a number of times to continue gleaning the wisdom it offers.



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Soundtrack of My Life – This Song

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It’s sad to think that there are many young people who have never heard of The Beatles. Of course for those who do remember them, there has always been discussions over favourites. For some, Paul McCartney was the favourite, for others John Lennon, some thought George Harrison was the best Beatle and there were even some who marched to the beat of Ringo’s drum.

While I wasn’t really around in the early days of Beatlemania, (they exploded onto the charts the year I was born) I do enjoy a lot of their music and you’d find heaps of their work on my iPod. When it comes to the matter of favourites, I’m definitely with George Harrison.

I love a lot of George’s music, including the track I’ve chosen to highlight today, This Song. It’s a song about the song itself and it was written after a famous court case where Harrison was accused of copying someone else’s work.

“This Song” was written after the week Harrison spent in a New York courtroom, unsuccessfully trying to convince a judge that his 1970 song “My Sweet Lord” did not intentionally infringe the Chiffons’ 1963 hit “He’s So Fine”. According to Harrison, the plaintiff got ridiculously in-depth, breaking “My Sweet Lord” down into several melody lines, or “motifs”, as they referred to them. Apparently, the plaintiff also drew up several charts with large musical notes on it to prove their point. Harrison said in his autobiography, I, Me, Mine, that after several days, he “started to believe that maybe they did own those notes”. – Wiki

The subject matter wasn’t veiled at all. From the first few lines you knew exactly what it was all about.

This song has nothing tricky about it
This song ain’t black or white and as far as I know
Don’t infringe on anyone’s copyright, so . . .

This song we’ll let be
This song is in E
This song is for you and . . .

This tune has nothing Bright about it
This tune ain’t bad or good and come ever what may
My expert tells me it’s okay

As this song came to me
Quite unknowingly
This song could be you could be . . .

This riff ain’t trying to win gold medals
This riff ain’t hip or square
Well done or rare
May end up one more weight to bear

But this song could well be
A reason to see – that
Without you there’s no point to . . . this song

It’s a catchy, fun song that never really lit up the charts but I love it. I also love watching the video. It’s a lot of fun. Look out for appearances by a bunch of Harrison’s friends including drummer Jim Keltner as the judge and the Rolling Stones’s Ronnie Wood dressed as a middle aged woman miming the words, “Could be ‘Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch’ – No, sounds more like ‘Rescue Me’.” which was recorded on the song by Monty Python’s Eric Idle. You can watch it below.

George Harrison might not be your favourite Beatle; in fact you might not even like The Beatles at all, but This Song is part of the soundtrack of my life and I wanted to share it with you. Let me know what you think.



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Get me out of here

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I know that look because I’ve been guilty of it myself. He was only about ten years of age and his face said it all. The last place he wanted to be was in the clothes section of Target trying on new shirts. Mum had other ideas.

It was yesterday and I was just walking past but I couldn’t help noticing the way his contorted face told his sad story. It was the kind of face that pleaded for the ground to open up and swallow him. Given the option, I don’t think that there would have been too many places that he wouldn’t rather have been. There may be exceptions but most young boys do not enjoy shopping for clothes.

Seeing that young boy reminded me of a moment from my youth that sometimes comes back to haunt me. You see, there’s only one thing more boring for a young boy than going clothes shopping and that’s going shopping for women’s clothes. No, I don’t mean buying women’s clothing for young boys. I mean being dragged along while women shop for clothes.

Mum was taking my sister shopping for clothes. For some reason I was tagging along. I guess that being the youngest child in my family I was the only one still too young to be left at home alone. So there we were, deep in enemy territory, and by enemy territory I mean deep in the girls’ clothing section. I reckon my face must have been displaying that tortured look and no doubt I was complaining about the experience.

What mum said: “We’ll go and look at some boy things soon.”

What I heard: “We’ll head over to the toy section soon.”

What mum meant: “We’ll go to the boys’ clothing section of the shop soon.”

I can still remember the disappointment of the moment I realised what mum meant. At that age, clothes weren’t something you went and bought. They were functional things that just turned up in your wardrobe.

Times change. I don’t mind shopping for clothes these days. It’s still not something on the top of my most enjoyable activities list but it has certainly moved up the scale considerably. I can still recall the time that the worst thing that could happen for a young boy was to open a Christmas or birthday gift and discover clothes inside. These days, I’m thrilled to receive clothing as a gift.

So to the young boy in Target yesterday, I feel your pain. Hang in there. It won’t always be this way.



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Lest We Forget – ANZAC Day 2014

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ANZAC Day, the 25th of April, has been described as Australia’s most important national occasion. While many public holidays are just about getting an extra day off, ANZAC Day has real significance for many Australians.

It marks the anniversary of the first major military action fought by Australian and New Zealand forces during the First World War. ANZAC stands for Australian and New Zealand Army Corps. While the date is aligned with that event in the First World War, the day is a remembrance of all those who have been to war to protect our freedom.

ANZAC Day goes beyond the anniversary of the landing on Gallipoli in 1915. It is the day we remember all Australians who served and died in all wars, conflicts, and peacekeeping operations. The spirit of ANZAC, with its human qualities of courage, mateship, and sacrifice, continues to have meaning and relevance for our sense of national identity. On ANZAC day, ceremonies are held in towns and cities across the nation to acknowledge the service of our veterans.

Sadie OlsenMy parents served in the Royal Australian Air Force during the Second World War. (You can click on any of the photos for a closer look. As well as the individual photos of my parents, the top picture shows my dad on the far right with his father and two of his brothers.)

I’ve watched television coverage of many ANZAC ceremonies over many years. After all these years the support for these commemorations continues to grow as the stories of heroism are remembered. As I look at the faces of those who served our country I see the pain as they remember their service during the dawn services as well as the joy of being remembered as they travel the route of the marches along city streets. When they see the faces in the crowds and hear the cheering as they pass, they know that this country is grateful for their sacrifice and the sacrifice of those who didn’t make it home.
Tom Olsen
War is a terrible thing, and I’m glad that I’ve never had to fight, but I am grateful for the courage and sacrifice of those who fought for our country. I shudder when I imagine what it would be like to face a hostile enemy, knowing that any moment could be my last.

I would hate to have to go to war. I can’t even imagine what it would be like to say goodbye to my loved ones, not knowing if I’d ever see them again. Having kids of my own, I don’t even want to think about the parents that have seen their children go to war. My hope is that we will continue to work towards finding better, peaceful ways to overcome conflict. War should never be the answer.

ANZAC Day isn’t about glorifying war, it’s about paying our respects to those who put their lives on the line for their countrymen and the generations to come.



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Eighty Years of Cycling

Russ Travers

I taught myself to ride a bike when I was 16. I was a late starter but I’ve made up for it since by riding some very long distances.

Russ Travers started a lot earlier and has now been cycling for 80 years. He’s still at it and loving it. He describes it as an addiction.

Watch the video below and be inspired by Russ and his cycling addiction.

I’ll be 96 by the time I can say that I’ve been cycling for 80 years. I only hope that whether I reach that age or not, I continue to get out and ride.



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