To the world his life looked like the ultimate success. People around the world loved him. He had a beautiful wife and a two lovely children. His massive wealth was continuing to grow rapidly and he had a reputation as being a thoroughly nice guy.
In November last year it all fell apart when the world learned of an extramarital affair, then another, then still more. It wasn’t long before even more was discovered about the secret life of Tiger Woods.
More recently a Melbourne multi-millionaire dissapeared. Everyone wondered what had happened to the 52 year old suburban dad and husband.
The search to find Herman Rockefeller ended tragically when his body was discovered in a suburban backyard. It was then that his secret double life was revealed. It was reported that he had a mystery girlfriend, five secret mobile phones and a connection to Melbourne’s swingers scene.
In both cases there was a secret life of deceit being lived in the shadows. In both these cases the truth came to light and destroyed one man’s reputation while claiming the life of the other.
How many people do we know that are living secret lives? Are there people close to us that are living a radically different life behind closed doors that we don’t know about?
My regular Wednesday morning guest on 98.5 Sonshine FM is Ross Clifford who is the Principal of Morling College in New South Wales and Vice President elect of the Baptist World Alliance. Each week we chat about a range of issues relating to spirituality and belief.
We discussed secret lives today and asked if we all have a secret life. We also looked at ways of ensuring our own integrity and what to do if we’ve found ourselves entangled in a secret life.
If you’d like to hear what Ross had to say, simply click the play button on the audio player at the bottom of this post.
To what extent do we all live secret lives? Are there things we do in secret that we wouldn’t want splashed across the front page of the newspaper?
Is there a disconnect between our private and public selves? Are there things we need to do to retain our integrity?
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What’s the difference between Tiger Woods and Santa Claus? Santa stops after three Ho’s.
Sorry, couldn’t resist.
I think most people have secret lives that they don’t want anyone else to know about, and I think a lot of us would be surprised by just who has the most secrets. These guys got all the media attention because they were high profile and wealthy. I downloaded a Tom Leykis MP3 on The Underbelly of Internet Dating a while back, it made for every interesting listening to say the least.
I also had a bit of a chuckle at the media getting all sanctimonious about Herman Rockerfeller’s activities. They criticise the guy and yet show lingering shots of the swingers’ ads on the advertisements for the news story (I didn’t watch the story itself). I wonder how many viewers went and signed up for those websites after seeing that.
You’re absolutely right Chris. We might not all be living such an extreme secret life but I think there are a lot of people who would rather not have their secrets exposed.
I love your point about lingering on the swingers ads. It’s a bit like the media beat up about the Maquarie banker. They made a big fuss about the guy opening an email but it gave them plenty of opportunity to show the semi naked shots of Miranda Kerr.
Hi Rodney.
Hey, is it possible to download these interviews as mp3s?
Alistair.
Hello Alistair
Here’s the link to the interview.
http://mpegmedia.sonshinefm.ws/feeds/SPI021010_1039.mp3
You can right click on the link and choose to save it as an mp3.
There’s a heap of other interviews here: http://www.sonshinefm.ws/AOD/index.cfm
Let me know if there’s anything you need.