Do you ever watch something for a long time and then wonder what you’ve just seen?
I finally got to see Emily playing netball on Saturday.
I usually take James to Auskick (junior Australian Rules Football) on a Saturday morning at the same time that Pauline takes Emily to netball. With school holidays upon us, there was no Auskick but the netball was still running so we all headed off to see Emily play.
I’ve got to admit that even after watching the game intently for an hour I still have no idea what was going on. I do know that Emily played well and that she scored a goal for her team but I couldn’t work out much more than that.
The umpires seemed to blow their whistles at random intervals to take the ball off one team and give it to the other. I’m sure that they knew what was going on and that they made the right calls but I couldn’t tell you what those calls were.
Do you ever find yourself in situations like that?
It’s a bit like that on the first day of a new job. Everyone else knows what’s happening but unless someone’s prepared to come along side you and explain everything, you’re left wondering what’s going on.
When we get used to a particular set of circumstances we tend to take certain actions and behaviours for granted, never thinking for a moment that others are totally bewildered.
I sometimes feel that way if I have cause to head to the pub. I don’t drink a lot and when I do drink it’s generally a quiet glass at home. Going to a hotel and ordering a drink seems like such a simple thing for most people but it can be confusing for me. I just hope the person behind the bar doesn’t ask me too much about my order. I don’t know what the correct names are for the various glass sizes and anything beyond ordering the most simple of drinks is beyond me.
I think the same thing happens in most churches. Unless you know the language and the right way to do things, you can feel very uncomfortable. I’m sure that’s why a lot of people would be happier to avoid getting involved in a local church. We might want to make people feel welcome when they visit but most of the time we’ve forgotten how unusual the whole deal is for most people. How many other places do people go where they have to stand up and sing songs they don’t know at irregular intervals? While they’re still trying to work out when to stand and sit they’re frantically hoping that they don’t do anything they’re not meant to do to cause themselves embarrassment.
Have you found yourself confounded by things that others take for granted?
Posted by Rodney Olsen
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I can identify with much of your post. Netball is even more bewildering when you are on court playing and don’t really know the rules! And then umpires on the next door court have whistles and it gets confusing.
New jobs are certainly bewildering and scary and i have heard the point about structured church services before. You would need some degree of structure to effectively though (in church or wherever)
Ohhh, yes! I once was in a catholic church for a wedding. I had to constantly look at the others ´cause I got no clue at all when to stand up or sit down!
And I just hate it for example to go to subway! “Which bread?” – “??? What do you have?” all the way through to the sauce. And obviously every guest behind me knows his exact order by heart and the staff is really shirty, too… And once again I feel like I just don´t belong here…
Hey Anonymous … I know just what you mean about Subway. When I used to eat there semi-regularly there used to be a choice of brown or white bread. Now it’s a choice between so many different breads I have no idea what to choose.
Surely they can tell you what bread and sauces generally go the best with which toppings.